Note: Stick around to the end of the post for a giveaway.
Life, to me, is all about space, exploration and love.
Space. We must give ourselves the space so we can listen to our inner voice. That means daily tech free rituals, meditation, journaling, anything that involves a quiet environment and an open heart.
Exploration. Within those spaces, we must explore the messages we hear. Step back from the chatter of the mind that’s full of our to-do’s, our bills, our worries, planning whatever vacation is coming up, getting the kids ready for school, etc. etc. etc., more busy chatter. It’s endless. Let go of all the worries and just BE. Listen to the truth that will inevitably spring forth when you give it the space.
Love. Stop worrying so much about all the crap in your life. Just love. We’re all doing our best with this love, and we’re all worthy of love. Nothing else matters. Try to give love always, to yourself and others.
What does this have to do with how I started painting watercolors?
It all started in April of last year. I have always loved art, ever since I was a kid, but for some reason, I just stopped doing art altogether. I stopped drawing. I stopped painting. I stopped writing poems. I stopped creating anything until I started taking pictures in 1999, and even then, I wouldn’t have called that art from the heart at first, but I’m getting off track.
Last April, I looked at one of the many kids’ books we have, and realized something was missing from my life. Art. I wanted to draw something, anything. So, I bought some water colors, drew some kangaroos and created art with a happy message. And, it felt amazing. A month later, I made Jenny a painting for our anniversary, and again felt fulfilled in a way that was lacking in my life. It was fun and exciting and fulfilling and joyful to just create happy art, like I did when I was a kid, just for me. I kept painting and sharing on Instagram and before too long, people started asking if they could buy my paintings…and that’s when Wanderlust Watercolors was born.
I’ve created a habit where I draw/paint something every single day. I’ve filled up pages and pages in my journal of ideas to paint in the future. And it’s been wonderful. No pressure, keeping it simple, creating happy art for a happy heart and hoping to make people smile. That’s my end goal.
What does this have to do with parenting, you ask? Since I started painting religiously in November, I’ve been a LOT happier. Being happier in my day to day life helps me be a better dad and husband. I’m happier because I’m creating that space to explore and spread love, all at the same time. My kids have even noticed my attitude shift and want to join in on the fun, so they’ll create along with me.
Having positive, life-giving daily rituals for yourself will lead to a happier you. A happier you will be a better parent and partner.
You might not be into drawing and painting like I am, and that’s ok. I’m sure there’s something that you love to do so much, but you’ve stopped making the time to do it. I get it, we all get caught up in the busy-ness of life. I’m just asking you to spend at least 10 minutes a day doing something only for yourself. I promise you’ll see the positive benefits right away.
What are some things you do only for yourself? Please share with us so others can have some ideas when they’re stuck!
Here’s a few of my favorite watercolors so far…
I’d love for you to head over and check out my happy watercolor paintings and sign up for my Wanderlust Mini Mag. I love to paint monsters and animals, if you’ve got something in your head you’d like for me to paint, fill out this form and we’ll create something awesome together!
And, now for the giveaway…
